Hayden Ellsworth Oiler

Hayden Ellsworth Oiler, age 88 of Jackson passed away Saturday, January 25, 2025 at the Riverside Methodist Hospital in Columbus, Ohio. He was born July 15, 1936 in Jackson County, Ohio to the late Burleigh and Hazel Miller Oiler. Hayden was the only child of Burleigh and Halene, and was very close to his parents. He was a dedicated and caring husband to his wife Mary, and the most loving father his daughter Robin could ever ask for. Hayden was a 1954 graduate of Jackson High School where he met his beloved wife of 62 years, Mary Albert. Shortly after graduation, Hayden enlisted in the US Navy, where he served for 4 years. He and his new bride moved to Newport, RI, and shortly thereafter, Hayden shipped out for a long stint on the USS Charles H. Roan DD-853 as a torpedoman, circumnavigating the globe and seeing much of the world. Hayden treasured his time in the Navy, and always talked fondly and proudly of his service. Upon returning stateside, he and Mary returned to Jackson and quickly started their family with the birth of Robin in 1960. Hayden was the nucleus of a tight-knit family, with his parents (Mammy and Pappy), Mary, and Robin sharing nearly nightly meals together and vacationing together. Professionally, Hayden followed in his father’s footsteps into the automobile business, and the two of them were close business associates for many years at Coll Auto Sales. The automobile business in a small town is a people business, and this was a natural for Hayden, as he got to know just about everyone in the county over the course of his career. This carried over in his dedication to service clubs in the area as a highly engaged leader and member, often receiving rewards and high recognition for his work. He was a proud member of the VFW Post 8402, AmVets 81, Moose Heart Lodge, Elks Lodge 466, American Legion Post 371, and Masonic Lodge 132. He was also a member of the Veterans Service Commission for many years. Much like his father, Mayor Burleigh, Hayden felt a calling to serve the city of Jackson, and did this through his position as City Treasurer. Hayden never met a stranger. He was well liked by everyone and would bring a smile and a laugh to every circle of friends he had. He had many circles of friends, from his clubs, golf leagues, card games, neighbors, and his weekly visits to local nursing homes to cheer up old friends and those he didn’t know. He loved sitting out on his back patio and talking to everyone who walked or drove by. He always had a good story to tell, and a big, generous heart. Hayden is survived by his daughter: Robin (Geoff) Smith of Cincinnati, Ohio and granddaughter: Delaney Smith of Manhattan, New York, as well as countless friends he's made throughout the years. He was preceded in death by his parents and his loving wife of 62 years: Mary Albert Oiler. Funeral services will be held 1PM Wednesday, January 29, 2025 at the Mayhew-Brown Funeral Home and burial with military honors to follow at the Fairmount Cemetery. The family will receive friends 2 hours prior to the service from 11AM to 1PM. Following the burial, a Celebration of Life for Hayden will be held at the VFW Post 8402. Condolences may be sent to the family at: www.mayhew-brownfuneralhome.com. In lieu of flowers, donations to support the VFW District Golf Fund in Hayden’s name can be sent to VFW Post 8402, in care of Greg Roseberry, Quartermaster, 283 E. Main St., Jackson, Ohio 45640. Proceeds from the fund and yearly tournament goes to the VA Hospital to purchase equipment and upgrade patient facilities.

Hayden Ellsworth Oiler

July 15, 1936 - January 25, 2025